Dear Annika,

"Ask a Girl" is mainly a place where girls can get advice from one another. A better place to ask about book plots would be the "Rants & Raves" Shout Out Message Board. That way, people who don't want the plots spoiled don't have to click on that thread. Thanks! Love,

Dear Karly,

I've had this happen to me. My best friend was so close to me in fourth grade and the she became really close friends with another person. She does this continually. Remember you're not the only one. Advice- try talking about it to her. Nothing hurts by just talking it out.I'm sorry you're feeling this way.

Annika, 11

Alabama

Dear Karly,

Sorry I live in Massachusetts!! I said I lived in Alabama!! oops hope my advice helps!

Annika, 11

Massachusetts

Dear Leslea,

Try talking to him and tell him how you feel about how he's acting. He shouldn't treat you this way.

Annika, 11

Massachusetts

Dear Leslea,

Walk and tell him how much you miss him. Like, ' I miss hanging out with you, and I assure you I'm not making rumers about my replacement. Your best friend.' Look into his eyes, and make sure he knows how much you miss him. Hope this helps.

Kailey, 10

Washington

Dear Inga,

My little sister is like that. She's hypersensitive to when people laugh, even if it's not at her. This is hopefully something that your friend will overcome, but for now, try to steer clear of giving her suggestions, even if they're not offensive at all. If it gets to be too much, try to let her know that you don't want to control her life at all and you really like her and think she's a great friend. Sometimes it might just be that she needs a confidence boost :)

Sara, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Sanae,

Remind him movies are completly fake. If you are watching the movie with him throw things in like 'that guy is such a good actor don't you think'? My sister gets scared too. You could try banning him from scary movies.

Genevieve, 11

Advice Land

Dear Sanae,

tell him to remember that it's all just fantasy and that that person doesn't exist in real life. the actor does but it's only acting! It's ALL fake! if he's freaked out by the actor he should stop watching movies with him in it.

Jo-Liz, 13

Quebec

Dear Sanae,

If your little brother is scared of a fictional character, tell him that the character doesn't exist in real life. Tell him that the character can't come and get him because he is locked up in the screen. If that still scares him explain that the character is just an actor. You should also ban him from watching scary movies. when I was small I would get scared and my parents would tell me this.

Inga, 10

California

Dear Sanae,

You should probably tell him that he shouldn't watch the movie anymore, it's the simplest way to avoid a problem, you should also tell your parents, but don't tell him you did.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Sanae,

Tell him that it's okay to be afraid, but don't worry because all of it is made up. You could ask him what exactly scares him and then help him to see what is fake and that he's okay. Maybe spend a little extra time with him, because it might make him feel better. Otherwise, ask his permission to tell your parents, bacause they would have good ideas too. You could ask them about some chidhood fear you had and say, "How did you ever help me get over that?". Hope this helps!

Sensei (Sen), 13

Wisconsin

Dear Sanae,

When I see something scary in a movie, I just laugh at it. I say stuff like "People seriously expect us to believe this stuff?!" or if it's an old movie with bad special effects and/or cheesy costumes, i say "Ew. He really is scary- his outfit, that is." or "Nice fake weapons"

Emma, 11

Texas

Dear Sanae,

tell him to think about something elese

Veda, 9

Oklahoma

Dear Katy,

I would trz doing all of these things: -show your parents that your responsable enough for a cell -give them good reasons why you need a cell phone (emergencies, always reachable,...) -beg alot and put it on your christmas wishlist -If nothig else works save up all your allowance and birthday money or whatever other money you have and ask permission to buy one yourself (remember you have to pay for calls, text messages, etc.) Show them our worthey of a phone ;)

Jo-Liz, 13

Quebec

Dear Katy,

I have exactly the same problem. I go to a private school, so every one is pretty wealthy and they all have cell phones. My family is not that well off, i only go to that school because my parents wanted me to get a good education. They won't let me get a cell phone either. I DO worry about it, but when people ask me if I have a cell phone I just stand up tall and try to be proud that I don't have one, even if I'm not. I always try and take pride in being different, it might work for you too.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Katy,

Who cares? It's just a phone! Stop and think about it. Would you use it a lot? Would you be willing to pay for it? Do you have enough? They are very expensive. Maybe you should sit down sometime with your parents with a granola bar or cookies and milk to discuss. Write down the details about whether or not you need to have one. Besides, if you are just getting one because your friends have all gotten one, I don't think that's a very good idea. Maybe your parents are saying you can't get one because you wouldn't use it enough? Ask them about it! Also, they may think you're not mature enough. Just ask them!

Bella, 10

Texas

Dear Katy,

I don't have a cell phone and I'm 13. Besides, what do you really DO with them at ten years old? If there was an emergency you can just use someone else's phone. Personally, with some people, I think cell phones are just like a parent's moniter. I know one boy who's mother calls him constantly to see if he's ok. Sometimes not having a cell phone means you're independant.

Kiera, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Katy,

i am 10 my parent said no you ca't get one but i relised that why not just wait

Jordan, 10

Pennsylvania

Dear Katy,

I have the EXACT same problem. EXACT! My parents also don't fall into the let's-get-my-kid-a-cell-phone category. One important thing: begging doesn't work. Your parents sound a lot like mine, who aren't swayed by me whining that all my friends have cell phones, so why not me? Here are some suggestions: Act responsibly. Do your chores, cooperate with your parents, etc. If you're going to a party where everyone has cell phones (this happens to me a lot), ask your mom or dad if you could borrow their cell for a night to feel more comfortable. Finally, present your dilemma to your parents in a mature, responsible, adult way, and let them know that it's their decision when you get a cell phone, and you trust that they'll make the right choice, but you'd like them to consider having it sooner rather than later. Also, don't forget: the later you get a cell, the cooler models they'll have out!!

Sara, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Abby,

The next time anything happens look her straight in the eye nd say: top it right now! If you do something like this one more time I'm telling! and then walk aay and don't look a her. Ignore her the next time she tlks to you and if she#s mean gain, tell a teacher or n othe adult ith you friend. 2 people mkes it easier to believe.

Jo-Liz, 13

Quebec

Dear Abby,

You should try tellling a teacher or one of your parents. They probably had problems like yours when they were kids.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Abby,

You did the right thing. Instead of calling her names back or anything, you ignored her. Keep ignoring her and if she feels like talking about it and asking you why, be reasonable, but strong, and tell her. Don't let her get away with saying that stuff.Hope this helps!

Sensei (Sen), 13

Wisconsin

Dear Isabella,

there is no point in hiding and pretending to be an emotionless brick. If you want real help, you will have to talk to a counselor or teacher about it.

Laura, 11

British Columbia

Dear Sofia,

Sofia, the Twilight series has a very mature topic. I have talked about it to my Mom. I don't really want to read it, but that's because I heard enough about it! I personally think at your age (not trying to sound rude, I am only a year older than you are) you wouldn't really understand it, and therefore, not like it. Your sister is allowed to read it, yes, because she is sixteen. Your Mom is not showing favoritism, at all, if that's what your thinking. She's trying to protect you from reading things that are too old for you. Take a look at all the other 9-year-olds on New Moon. Can you find lots that have read Twilight? Look around your school, too. Did you find more than five? Of course not! Those books are way to old. I know it's a bummer to not be allowed to read something your sister has, but just wait. She wouldn't have been allowed to read it if she was just 9! Enjoy some other books that are your age! My reccomendations are:Percy Jackson, and the Shadow Thieves.

Bella, 10

Texas

Dear Sofia,

Ps. from my earlier message -- someone I have talked to, Jo-Liz, 13, is not allowed to finish Breaking Dawn! You're not alone in not reading them!!! :)'s and

Bella, 10

Texas

Dear Sofia,

My younger sister, who is a year younger than you, has also been begging my mom to let her read Twilight. When I was your age (not trying to sound condescending; I'm only a few years older anyway!), I was also (and still am) a total bookworm, but sometimes even if you can read and comprehend the book, you can't fully get it until you're a little older. If you really really want to read it, explain to your mom the reasons why, and offer to have her preview it for you first, or read it with you. I know this is totally annoying, and I've had the same problem, but in a few years you'll probably appreciate the book even more. That doesn't mean you can't read it now; everyone has different levels of maturity. Talk to your mom about it.

Sara, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Sofia,

I am not trying to pt Bella down, but I think that nine is a muture enough age to read the series. I was nine when I started the Twilight series and I understood it perfectly!

Lyndsay, 12

Nebraska

Dear Izzy,

Don't worry about it. That happened to me in fifth grade too. All people begin at different times.

Cozette, 12

Pennsylvania

Dear Izzy,

Don't feel embarrased! I was in the same situation as you when I was 10. If you really feel uncomfortable changing in front of your friends, say you have to go to the bathroom, put on a sweater, and stuff the underwear in a sweater pocket. Then change, put the dirty pair in you pocket, and then turn your back to your friends and put your underwear away. And don't worry, they will catch up soon. Your friends are probably jelous that they didn't get pubic hair before you! Hope this helps!

Abigail, 12

Kentucky

Dear Izzy,

that is same way with me and i am in 6th grade now. and i think it happened in 4th grade for me though. its okay to feel embarrased. i dont exactly feel comfortable changing in front of people either. when i was in 4th grade, i wasnt allowed to shave and my armpits were hairy. i was the first person in the whole grade (i think) and everyone found out and they would tease me about it. well eventually everyone else caught up and they start to understand so dont worry about it. and if its other pubic hair, try changing in the bathroom.

Hannah, 11

New York

Dear Izzy,

I've had the exact same problem! I started developing pubic and underarm hair in 3rd grade!! People would constantly tease me about it, and I felt so self-conscious, like I was a freak of nature. Now, all of my friends have developed at least a little bit of pubic and underarm hair, and most of us shave our legs, too. What helped me through the time when I was the only one was taking advantage of my privacy (not in a bad way, I mean just having privacy). If you want to change in the bathroom, that's okay. Changing on different sides of the room is also helpful. If you want, you can even explain to your friend that you're developing pubic hair and you feel really self-conscious about it. Chances are, she probably feels self-conscious about her body in one way or another, too! Keep in mind that even though it feels like the whole world knows your pubic hair is growing, it's not so visible! You can wear a long shirt and pull it down over your hair to hide it when changing. Good luck!!!

Sara, 13

Massachusetts

Dear Sarah,

I think you should talk to your friend. Maybe you could invite her over sometime after school and tell her how you feel. Maybe you could write her a letter and leave it on her desk at school,telling her how you feel. I hope it works out!

Janie, 11

Maryland

Dear Sarah,

I have a friend like that, so I know how you feel. Tell her how you feel when she acts mean or selfish. She may not admit that would she does is mean, but at least you might get her thinking about her actions.I hope this helps!

Finn, 10

Vermont

Dear Sarah,

You should invite her over some time to talk to her. Hope this helps!

Nora, 11

Vermont

Dear Sarah,

Tell her how you feel! Explain to her thoughtfully exactly WHAT she does that makes you sad. It's very possible that she could be insecure about herself. If she can't talk to you about it or makes you feel bad about yourself, and the idea of hanging out with her doesn't sound fun anymore, try to find some new friends. Don't let this girl put you down! Good luck!

Eliana, 13

California

Dear Sarah,

Hi! I have a friend just like that. Just have your friend as a playing friend and don't tell her all of your secrets. Secrets are just for family and really good friends that you can trust. I hope you use and like my advice

Jane, 9

New York

Dear Sarah,

Dear Sarah, This is a tough thing to answer but I would pull her over to the side and talk to her and tell her, "Hey you are a great friend, but sometimes you turn on me, and that's not cool, and I don't want to hang out with you if you are going to treat me this way." I hope everything works out!!

Pittsburgh87, 12

Pennsylvania

Dear Sarah,

SARAH, U need no friend who is nice one day, the next eval!!! U dont deserve someone like that. NO SIR RE!!! Not in my head she does' nt!! Thats not really a friend. Find someone who will b nice to u!!! Not nice, mean, nice, mean, nice, mean, nice ECT!!!!!

Rosie!, 14

Rhode Island

Dear Charlotte,

I'm sorry if this isn't great help, but just talk to your Mom about it. Moms can make help go a very, very long way! I don't think it's a very good idea to talk to your teacher about it. She may be very incredibly Christian and into religious matters a little to far, but you can not stop her from believing what she does. Just ignore her. You might also consider talking to the principal. She or he might want to know about this because after all, it is one of her own employees and may take interest in your matter. She probably would not like knowing that was going on in your classroom!

Amaterasu, 12

Tokyo

Dear Charlotte,

OH, well next time MRS.G ask u and ur friend 2 do stuff 4 her, ask her 2 ask some1 els. And say, u need 2 do ur work. And u should talk her. And u and ur friend, have 2 ask her is she stop asking u 2 2 do stuff 4 her. Only when she needs 2 !!!

Rosie!, 14

Rhode Island

Dear Charlotte,

you shouldn't b afraid 2 talk 2 your teacher. there are many cultures with differnt religons and belifs so it is rude of her 2 only refer 2 one cutlre. you should try and find other people who feel the same as u and tell her what you think together. in a group it might b easier 2 talk 2 her but remember she is still an adult so b respectful but tell her how u feel:) Good Luck!!!!! - Ella

Ella, 12

Ontario

Dear Charlotte,

Well you can tell her how you feel about you having to do all of this work for her and ask for a break.

Yana, 11

Alabama

Dear Paranoid,

I can understand why you're protective of something you worked so hard on. Unfortunately, we're not to do anything on the site right now that guarantees that girls won't share your story. However, you DO keep the copyright to everything you post on New Moon Girls (meaning it doesn't belong to New Moon or anyone else online just because you post it here). Although it's scary to think of someone stealing your story, many people post their writing online all the time, getting lots of fans and building community, and rarely has someone stolen a story online. To be safe, you could post your story for a week or so to get feedback, then take it down and make it "private" in your stuff so it's not up constantly. I hope this helps! Love,

Dear Paranoid,

I don't think any New Moon member would do such a thing. You have your right to not post it. If in the case taht somebody did do that, they would be in trouble with the government. So it's your choice and nobody is limiting you.

Liza, 10

Mississippi